Wedding Guidelines

The following guidelines will help you as you make your marriage plans.

Planning Your Celebration


Music

Please contact the parish music director, Stephanie Honz (W) 586-5675, ext. 251; (H)  381-6688.  Stephanie will assist you in selecting appropriate music for the wedding ceremony.  According to our parish policy, Stephanie is the organist for weddings.

We encourage the use of a cantor at your wedding.  We have a number of excellent cantors available to you.  Please consult with Stephanie in making this choice.  If you choose to provide your own cantor, you are welcome to do so.  He or she would need to be familiar with our liturgy and be comfortable in leading others in song.
 



Flowers      

Flowers may be left in Church or taken to your reception.   Be sure to let your florist know where you want them placed in the sanctuary.  It is not appropriate to place the flowers on the altar.

Offering

Church

The fee for the use of the Church for currently registered parishioners is $175.  The usage fee is $400 if neither party is a member of the parish.  The check payable to St. Louis Church is due when you schedule the wedding.  After the fee is paid, you can be assured that the date for your wedding is firm.
 

Liturgical Ministers

$200 stipend to the organist, payable to Stephanie Honz.
$125 stipend to the wedding coordinator, payable to Bea Hack.
$  25 FOCCUS Inventory

Stipend to the Presider is whatever you wish it to be.


Photography

Our church is beautiful and we want your celebration to be beautiful also.  Instruct your photographer to remain on the sidelines and in no way obstruct your ceremony.

You may remain in Church for photos after your celebration.  If your wedding is scheduled for Saturday afternoon at 2:00PM, keep in mind that all photography must conclude no later than 3:45PM,  

                 Photographer Guidelines
                                                 
                                          
Marriage License

Bring your marriage license to the rehearsal.  Your witnesses will sign the license then.  The priest or deacon will sign on the day of your ceremony and will mail the license back to the issuing office (village, city, town).


Directions

A map providing directions to the Church and Ministry Center (located  next south is available on this site. For those not familiar with the area,the map also provides links to lodgings and restaurants near the church, as well as a link to the Town of Pittsford.


Rehearsal  

The rehearsal will be led by our wedding coordinator, Bea Hack. The rehearsal will be scheduled the night before the wedding either at 5:45 p.m. or 6:45 p.m..  This is  scheduled at the time when the wedding is arranged to be sure that the Church will be available when you want it.

 Ordinarily the rehearsal will last about 45 minutes. All members of the wedding party should be present.  Readers may also practice their readings on the microphone at this time.  This rehearsal is for the ceremony only, not for the music.

 Please give the fees and your wedding license to the wedding coordinator at the rehearsal.

There may be no consumption of any alcoholic beverage on the Church property at the time of the rehearsal or wedding.

We would request you be on time.

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